Tuesday thru Sunday, December 26-31—Cold, Wet, and End of 2017

We departed home for the Rio Grande Valley near 7 AM, arriving at our motorhome about 8 PM–700 miles in 13+ hours—driving through a light rain and cold temperatures most of the way. It remained like that, cold and wet, for the rest of the week, finally breaking near the weekend. After looking at Christmas photos, I decided it was past time to DIET!

Before the rain began…

Early evening on New Year’s Eve, Kay and I joined some 20+ neighbors for dinner at Republic of the Rio Grande, a really good restaurant in McAllen; Kay had shrimp kabobs and I had grilled fish and both were outstanding.

Back at the resort, we attended the New Year’s Eve party, sharing a table with Dale and Donna Short, Rudy and Sherry, and Paul and Steve. The rock and roll band was much too loud and we left after only a couple of hours. What a way to end a great year!

Friday thru Monday, December 15-25—Christmas at Home

After driving most of the day, I arrived home to cold temperatures mid-afternoon Friday. Kay attended a dress-up Christmas dinner party at Diamante Country Club for our Care Zone at church. In as much as I had not intended to be home for another week and tired from driving, I did not attend.
On Saturday, we attended a memorial sera for cousin Walker Dunn at our childhood church in Bradford, Arkansas. While a sad and somber occasion, it was great seeing many cousins.
Overlooking #9 at Balboa

We slept late on Sunday, and therefore did not attend church. Kay drove to Maumelle for an overnight visit with Karyn and her family, and a date day with Ridge on Monday. I played golf with Don Atchley at Balboa Golf Club, enjoying one of the Village’s great golf courses, but not the cool temps. Don and I played again on Monday, this time at Desoto Golf Club, and Kay returned home late in the afternoon.

Thursday, December 21, Kay and I drove to Memphis to spend all day with Jenny, Harper, and Brian; we had not seen them since late September.

My two beautiful girls!

Christmas Eve was our big Christmas holiday celebration. The morning saw us at the Adams’ with Ron, Cheryl, Kaden, Karyn, Matt, and the kids—not as chaotic as I remember.

The matriarch and her husband
Ron and Cheryl

Karyn and Kaden
Aker









Ridge















Kay and I attended Christmas Eve Candlelight and Communion service at COHUMC; this is a tradition we have honored since the beginning of our relationship some 18 years ago. Following the service we had Christmas Eve dinner at the Morris’ with Jim and Jackie, Jackie’s sister and her husband, Pam Williams, and Don Atchley. This is a new tradition that I really enjoy; reminds me of Christmas when I was growing up, absent the kids!


Back home, Kay and I exchanged gifts; this was quite humorous. We had been ordering gifts for each other since late November, having them shipped to friend’s houses, to our house in the Village, and to our RV site in the Rio Grande Valley. Consequently when all these were collected, we had forgotten to whom each belonged. We opted not to wrap them, instead leaving them in their Amazon Prime boxes. Each of us would begin opening a gift until we could identify it as belonging to one or the other, then passing off the gifts that belonged to the other. It was a hoot, and possibly a new tradition. That pretty much ended our Christmas holiday celebration.

Amazon Prime did our gift wrapping

With all the hoopla out of the way, we were able to celebrate Christmas day in a more serious and somber mood. We deconstructed decorations, boxing them up and storing them in the crawl space for next year. We attended a potluck Christmas Dinner at our church, Christ of the Hills United Methodist Church during mid-afternoon; regretfully, or perhaps thankfully, most of the food was gone by the time I made it through the buffet line. I did manage to get a piece of pecan pie and ate it BEFORE the meal; good, but not up to Mom’s or Kay’s standard by any stretch of the imagination.

Sunday thru Thursday, December 10-14—All About The Book Club

The weather here in the Valley has turned a bit chilly, at least by RGV standards, limiting outside activities.
Kay’s friend since kindergarten, Sue Srozynski, visited Kay in Hot Springs Village Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday, to assist in decorating, view the Christmas lights at Garvan Woodland Gardens, and spend a little money at the slots at Oaklawn Casino.
Garvan Woodland Gardens
On Wednesday, I did a short afternoon bicycle ride, despite the chill and wind; was opting for a longer ride but thought that rear tire was losing air.

Thursday was the big day for The Book Club Party; all had a great time.

Too much wine…



I departed for home in Hot Springs Village after playing golf with Tim, Sue, and John at Palm Creek in the afternoon, stopping for the night at Hotel Texas in Hallettsville.

Monday thru Saturday, December 4-9—Settling In

During Kay’s visit to the ER on November 12 (before we left for the Rio Grande Valley), an EKG indicated that she had a right bundle branch block (RBBB), a heart block in the electrical conduction system. During a RBBB, the right ventricle is not directly activated by impulses traveling through the right bundle branch. Consequently, as a follow-up, this Monday she visited Dr. Giraldo, my cardiologist here in the RGV. He did not find anything seriously wrong, but ordered a stress test be done after the holidays. Seems like all we do these days is play golf and go to medical appointments!
On Friday, we received word that my cousin, Walker Dunn, passed after a 4-year struggle with multiple myeloma. Walkie, as we called him, was quite an interesting and unique individual, and had 4 beautiful/good looking children. Fortunately, Walkie and I had rekindled our friendship after many years of going different directions. Late in the day, Kay and I were driving around the area and spotted these birds completely covering the road for several hundred feet before scattering to this area.

Kay is hosting The Book Club Christmas meeting this year at our house in Hot Springs Village.  Consequently, she flew home on Saturday to decorate the house, complete Christmas shopping, and attend several social functions.

Saturday and Sunday, December 2-3—A Fine Arts Weekend

When I went out Saturday morning to sweep the patio and drive, a large Monarch butterfly was nectaring on the shrubs between Jim and Regi and us; it is late migrating to Mexico! The tripod was dug out of the motorhome basement, the camera attached, and several photos taken. It truly is a beautiful butterfly. 
Since we had plans for the afternoon, I did only a short 10.2 mile ride Saturday morning.


In the afternoon, we attended McAllen Memorial High School’s musical production of Cinderella with Van and Bonnie Holmes and Sue Mercer. It was incredibly good and featured a large cast. Several of the high schoolers had really good voices, and will have a bright future. 

We finally made it to winter church (First United Methodist Church of Mission) on Sunday, and really enjoyed the “praise and worship” service. This is our 6th year attending here. Brother Bill Duke preached a short, but good, sermon, and we took communion as it was the first Sunday of the month. A late breakfast at Diaz Diner, one of our favorite eating places in the Valley, followed. Sue Mercer joined us at the Rio Grande Valley’s 29th Tuba Christmas. Tuba Christmas is a music concert held in cities worldwide on the same day each year, celebrating those who play, teach, and compose music for instruments in the tuba family, including the tuba, sousaphone, baritone, and euphonium. The RGV’s Tuba Christmas features 580 tuba players in a packed gymnasium; it is the largest assembly of tubists ever in North America. Though unusual, the concert was very good.

Friday, December 1—Golf, Again

Christmas is rapidly approaching; Kay put out a few decorations, and erected a small tree on the dining table. We even began playing Christmas music!
Kay, feeling better and more like herself, play golf with Tim, Elton, and me on Friday at Palm View Golf Course. Once again, Tim and I walked, and we had a very slow front 9, though the back nine played a bit faster. Kay hit some good shots, and my game is improving, ever so slowly—am swinging slower, and gripping lower on the putter—hoping to get back to the high 80s in a few days!
With the arrival of the first of the month, Bentsen Palm Village RV Resort welcomed a bunch of “new” RVs, filling many of the empty sites.

Monday thru Thursday, November 27-30—Golf, Shopping, and More Golf

We still haven’t established a routine down here in the Valley; Kay’s shingles really hampers her involvement in physical activities, and we’re used to spending this time of year at home—sure miss family. 
Tim Creaghan and I had a tee time at Cimmaron County Club on Monday morning, but an early text from them stated they had cancelled all tee times due to a lack of enough players! Tierra Santa in Weslaco did have an opening late in the morning. It is a very nice course and almost always windy which adds to the challenge, but Monday was unusual in that there was very little wind. Tim had a good round, but my round deteriorated with every swing and putt.


The bad round on Monday combined with a poor memory resulted in leaving a UTRGV gift driver head cover at Tierra Santa. With nothing planned, Kay and I decided to spend the day, Tuesday, shopping at Sketchers and Costco in Pharr, and driving to Weslaco to pick up the head cover, buy golf balls on sale, shop at Wells of Weslaco (Kay’s favorite women’s clothing store), and eat out for lunch. Despite a full list of things to do, we succeeded in returning home early mid-afternoon.
I played golf at Palm View on Wednesday, driving Tim and Sue King there, leaving Kay “stranded” in the motorhome for rest and relaxation. It was my first time to walk 18 holes since late August, was quite tiring, and aggravated a stone bruise on the ball of my right foot (metatarsalgia). And, my game continued to deteriorate.
Thursday saw a few RVs pulling in, a day early, for scheduled arrival December 1. It’s fun watching old friends returning to the Valley, and meeting folks coming here for the first time. It was a good day of rest.

Saturday and Sunday, November 25-26

Saturday was a great day. Kay, Sue Mercer, and I did a short ride to Mission Park (aka Roadrunner Trail), the ladies’ first ride of the season. Riding at a relaxed pace and stopping often, they really enjoyed the ride. 


With little wind and warm temperatures, I liberally applied insect repellent, loaded the camera and big lens, and rode to the National Butterfly Center. It was perhaps the best day of photography I’ve ever had there, with some pretty decent shots of the beautiful creatures. Though I did not target nor shoot any rare species, the other colorful fluttering insects were almost mouth dropping.

We fully intended to attend church on Sunday morning, but we slept late—enough said!

Thursday and Friday, November 23-24—Thanksgiving and Cycling

We celebrated Thanksgiving day much as we would at home, absent Jenny, Brian, and Harper—sure miss them.  Kay began cooking early, making cornbread and biscuits for momma’s dressing, then compiling the ingredients for the finished product; in addition, she made her speciality green bean bundles. We gathered with others at the Activities Center for a semi potluck, sharing food at our table with 3 other couples.

Except for that brief flurry of activity, and Kay’s being hampered by shingles, we’re both staying pretty close to the RV.  However, I did manage to get out with Van for a short cycle ride of 11.2 miles.

The motorhome got a beauty treatment Friday morning, with a wash and dry; not too bad, but it will be dusty/dirty in a couple of weeks because of the wind and blowing dust.

Cycling was amped up on this day as Van came by and asked if I was interested in pedaling to Best Buy, perhaps 7 or so miles away. I agreed, but after stopping at Best Buy, we continued to ride on 26h Street north (great bicycle lane), all the way to Edinburg, and then back to the RV resort, some 38.8 miles. In retrospect, we both overdid it!


Monday thru Wednesday, November 20-22—Another Doctor, Cycling, and Golf

During Kay’s visit last week to the Mission Regional Hospital ER, Dr. Rodriguez gave us names of internal medicine doctors that saw only adults. Kay phoned Dr. Abreu at the top at the top of the list and they offered to work her in as the day progressed. We drove to her office, Kay filled out paperwork, and we returned to the motorhome to await their call. In the afternoon, they called, and Kay drove to the office and saw Dr. Abreu. Kay really liked her, and she prescribed a neurological block tablet that should ease the pain from shingles.
With Kay somewhat sidelined with shingles, she is somewhat down and out, not getting to do all the things she wants before departing for home on December 9. Consequently, I played golf on Tuesday at Palm View, lucky enough to meet up with and join Gil and Lucille again, so as not to play solo, shooting a 91.  

Despite winds of almost 20 mph, I did another short bicycle ride (10.2 miles) on Wednesday.

And then it was off to the National Butterfly Center where a few of the butterflies and a moth cooperated, posing briefly for the camera. Otherwise, things were pretty quiet for us.