Sunday thru Thursday, December 10-14—All About The Book Club

The weather here in the Valley has turned a bit chilly, at least by RGV standards, limiting outside activities.
Kay’s friend since kindergarten, Sue Srozynski, visited Kay in Hot Springs Village Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday, to assist in decorating, view the Christmas lights at Garvan Woodland Gardens, and spend a little money at the slots at Oaklawn Casino.
Garvan Woodland Gardens
On Wednesday, I did a short afternoon bicycle ride, despite the chill and wind; was opting for a longer ride but thought that rear tire was losing air.

Thursday was the big day for The Book Club Party; all had a great time.

Too much wine…



I departed for home in Hot Springs Village after playing golf with Tim, Sue, and John at Palm Creek in the afternoon, stopping for the night at Hotel Texas in Hallettsville.

Monday thru Saturday, December 4-9—Settling In

During Kay’s visit to the ER on November 12 (before we left for the Rio Grande Valley), an EKG indicated that she had a right bundle branch block (RBBB), a heart block in the electrical conduction system. During a RBBB, the right ventricle is not directly activated by impulses traveling through the right bundle branch. Consequently, as a follow-up, this Monday she visited Dr. Giraldo, my cardiologist here in the RGV. He did not find anything seriously wrong, but ordered a stress test be done after the holidays. Seems like all we do these days is play golf and go to medical appointments!
On Friday, we received word that my cousin, Walker Dunn, passed after a 4-year struggle with multiple myeloma. Walkie, as we called him, was quite an interesting and unique individual, and had 4 beautiful/good looking children. Fortunately, Walkie and I had rekindled our friendship after many years of going different directions. Late in the day, Kay and I were driving around the area and spotted these birds completely covering the road for several hundred feet before scattering to this area.

Kay is hosting The Book Club Christmas meeting this year at our house in Hot Springs Village.  Consequently, she flew home on Saturday to decorate the house, complete Christmas shopping, and attend several social functions.

Saturday and Sunday, December 2-3—A Fine Arts Weekend

When I went out Saturday morning to sweep the patio and drive, a large Monarch butterfly was nectaring on the shrubs between Jim and Regi and us; it is late migrating to Mexico! The tripod was dug out of the motorhome basement, the camera attached, and several photos taken. It truly is a beautiful butterfly. 
Since we had plans for the afternoon, I did only a short 10.2 mile ride Saturday morning.


In the afternoon, we attended McAllen Memorial High School’s musical production of Cinderella with Van and Bonnie Holmes and Sue Mercer. It was incredibly good and featured a large cast. Several of the high schoolers had really good voices, and will have a bright future. 

We finally made it to winter church (First United Methodist Church of Mission) on Sunday, and really enjoyed the “praise and worship” service. This is our 6th year attending here. Brother Bill Duke preached a short, but good, sermon, and we took communion as it was the first Sunday of the month. A late breakfast at Diaz Diner, one of our favorite eating places in the Valley, followed. Sue Mercer joined us at the Rio Grande Valley’s 29th Tuba Christmas. Tuba Christmas is a music concert held in cities worldwide on the same day each year, celebrating those who play, teach, and compose music for instruments in the tuba family, including the tuba, sousaphone, baritone, and euphonium. The RGV’s Tuba Christmas features 580 tuba players in a packed gymnasium; it is the largest assembly of tubists ever in North America. Though unusual, the concert was very good.

Friday, December 1—Golf, Again

Christmas is rapidly approaching; Kay put out a few decorations, and erected a small tree on the dining table. We even began playing Christmas music!
Kay, feeling better and more like herself, play golf with Tim, Elton, and me on Friday at Palm View Golf Course. Once again, Tim and I walked, and we had a very slow front 9, though the back nine played a bit faster. Kay hit some good shots, and my game is improving, ever so slowly—am swinging slower, and gripping lower on the putter—hoping to get back to the high 80s in a few days!
With the arrival of the first of the month, Bentsen Palm Village RV Resort welcomed a bunch of “new” RVs, filling many of the empty sites.

Monday thru Thursday, November 27-30—Golf, Shopping, and More Golf

We still haven’t established a routine down here in the Valley; Kay’s shingles really hampers her involvement in physical activities, and we’re used to spending this time of year at home—sure miss family. 
Tim Creaghan and I had a tee time at Cimmaron County Club on Monday morning, but an early text from them stated they had cancelled all tee times due to a lack of enough players! Tierra Santa in Weslaco did have an opening late in the morning. It is a very nice course and almost always windy which adds to the challenge, but Monday was unusual in that there was very little wind. Tim had a good round, but my round deteriorated with every swing and putt.


The bad round on Monday combined with a poor memory resulted in leaving a UTRGV gift driver head cover at Tierra Santa. With nothing planned, Kay and I decided to spend the day, Tuesday, shopping at Sketchers and Costco in Pharr, and driving to Weslaco to pick up the head cover, buy golf balls on sale, shop at Wells of Weslaco (Kay’s favorite women’s clothing store), and eat out for lunch. Despite a full list of things to do, we succeeded in returning home early mid-afternoon.
I played golf at Palm View on Wednesday, driving Tim and Sue King there, leaving Kay “stranded” in the motorhome for rest and relaxation. It was my first time to walk 18 holes since late August, was quite tiring, and aggravated a stone bruise on the ball of my right foot (metatarsalgia). And, my game continued to deteriorate.
Thursday saw a few RVs pulling in, a day early, for scheduled arrival December 1. It’s fun watching old friends returning to the Valley, and meeting folks coming here for the first time. It was a good day of rest.

Saturday and Sunday, November 25-26

Saturday was a great day. Kay, Sue Mercer, and I did a short ride to Mission Park (aka Roadrunner Trail), the ladies’ first ride of the season. Riding at a relaxed pace and stopping often, they really enjoyed the ride. 


With little wind and warm temperatures, I liberally applied insect repellent, loaded the camera and big lens, and rode to the National Butterfly Center. It was perhaps the best day of photography I’ve ever had there, with some pretty decent shots of the beautiful creatures. Though I did not target nor shoot any rare species, the other colorful fluttering insects were almost mouth dropping.

We fully intended to attend church on Sunday morning, but we slept late—enough said!

Thursday and Friday, November 23-24—Thanksgiving and Cycling

We celebrated Thanksgiving day much as we would at home, absent Jenny, Brian, and Harper—sure miss them.  Kay began cooking early, making cornbread and biscuits for momma’s dressing, then compiling the ingredients for the finished product; in addition, she made her speciality green bean bundles. We gathered with others at the Activities Center for a semi potluck, sharing food at our table with 3 other couples.

Except for that brief flurry of activity, and Kay’s being hampered by shingles, we’re both staying pretty close to the RV.  However, I did manage to get out with Van for a short cycle ride of 11.2 miles.

The motorhome got a beauty treatment Friday morning, with a wash and dry; not too bad, but it will be dusty/dirty in a couple of weeks because of the wind and blowing dust.

Cycling was amped up on this day as Van came by and asked if I was interested in pedaling to Best Buy, perhaps 7 or so miles away. I agreed, but after stopping at Best Buy, we continued to ride on 26h Street north (great bicycle lane), all the way to Edinburg, and then back to the RV resort, some 38.8 miles. In retrospect, we both overdid it!


Monday thru Wednesday, November 20-22—Another Doctor, Cycling, and Golf

During Kay’s visit last week to the Mission Regional Hospital ER, Dr. Rodriguez gave us names of internal medicine doctors that saw only adults. Kay phoned Dr. Abreu at the top at the top of the list and they offered to work her in as the day progressed. We drove to her office, Kay filled out paperwork, and we returned to the motorhome to await their call. In the afternoon, they called, and Kay drove to the office and saw Dr. Abreu. Kay really liked her, and she prescribed a neurological block tablet that should ease the pain from shingles.
With Kay somewhat sidelined with shingles, she is somewhat down and out, not getting to do all the things she wants before departing for home on December 9. Consequently, I played golf on Tuesday at Palm View, lucky enough to meet up with and join Gil and Lucille again, so as not to play solo, shooting a 91.  

Despite winds of almost 20 mph, I did another short bicycle ride (10.2 miles) on Wednesday.

And then it was off to the National Butterfly Center where a few of the butterflies and a moth cooperated, posing briefly for the camera. Otherwise, things were pretty quiet for us.


Friday thru Sunday, November 17-19—Settling In

Kay rested most of Friday, with the pain pills helping immensely. I did a short bicycle ride with Van Holmes. Sue Mercer arrived from near Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, in late afternoon, and was met at the airport by Kay; she was welcomed with hugs at the palapa happy hour upon her arrival. It being her birthday and to help her celebrate, seventeen of us had dinner at the Ranch House, a super burger place in Mission.
A first of the season trip to the National Butterfly Center occurred on Saturday.  It proved to be a great day for photographing butterflies.

Kay and I ventured out to play golf Saturday afternoon at Palm View—a mistake. It was crowded, with 4 fivesomes in front of a foursome in front of us. Kay bailed after nine holes and I joined the foursome, but darkness prevented us from finishing.

We skipped church on Sunday as Kay was still not feeling well; the pain pills help, but she has to take them as often as allowed. Van Holmes and I cycled for the first time this season—a short ride—pedaling only 9.2 miles. Otherwise, it was an uneventful day.

Thursday, November 16—The ER Again, and Golf

In addition to not sleeping, Kay was in excruciating pain. We drove to the Mission Regional Hospital Emergency Room, where Kay was admitted quickly, and attended to by a staff of RNs and Dr. Rodriguez. After a brief, but thorough, examination, he diagnosed Kay with shingles, and she was given a couple of injections for pain, and some prescriptions. Back at the motorhome, she was able to sleep (drug induced). The efficiency and quality of care with which the ER operated was very, very good.
I took advantage of the Thursday golf special at Palm View Golf Course in McAllen, and was pleasantly surprised at the grassy fairways and quality of the new greens. Playing solo through the first nine, I joined a couple—Gil and Lucille—from Winnipeg, Canada, for the back nine. They were a delightful couple who play at 11:30 AM everyday.