Wednesday through Tuesday, January 1-7, 2025—Struggling to Find a Niche

Posted on January 7, 2025 by dunngone

After being overwhelmed last night (New Year’s Eve) with the crowds and traffic, we enjoyed a quiet day in The Villages celebrating New Year’s Day. Clothes were hung or put away, toiletries were located where they could easily be found, and computer equipment set up for processing photo images. We enjoyed hog jowl, black-eyed peas, and cabbage for dinner, and watched TV. A lot of time was spent setting up the TVs to reflect our various subscriptions. Regrettably, we have had no luck in turning closed captioning on the various specialty subscriptions; with my hearing loss, closed captioning is a must! I believe this is the evening that we had our first Hand and Foot card game, women vs. men. It wasn’t even close; ‘nuf said. Way to go men.

The next few days were spent trying to get our bearings, learning all the processes used to “survive” at The Villages, and doing a bit of shopping. Kay suffered sticker shock when checking out at the groceries; groceries are expensive.

We played nine holes of golf at Bogart Golf Course on Thursday, January 2—Bogart is one of the executive courses near us—and had a lot of fun. The executive courses are better than what we were led to believe, but they are really crowded.

We joined Gary, Jolene, Ron, and Bev Friday evening for dinner at the Americanos restaurant at Spanish Springs, one of the large town squares in The Villages, after which we listed to a “just okay”t band.

We left Spanish Square and moved to Sumter Landing town square where the music was a bit better.

Saturday afternoon late, almost 5:00 PM, we played the Bogart Executive Golf Course, together with another couple. Kay and I called it quits after seven holes because of darkness.

On Sunday, January 5, we ventured to the largest of The Villages’ nature preserves—Sharon Rose Wiechens Preserve—but it was closed because of flooding. I had been counting on it for photography—very disappointing. Desperately trying to find some photo subjects, we drove to the small Chitty Chatty Preserve, also in The Villages, and managed to take a few photos.

The Air BNB owner came by the rental and helped with the garage door openers and see how we were doing. In the preceding days, Kay and I had had some serious discussions about our future in The Villages, and we both quickly and firmly agreed that it wasn’t our type of place—too crowded, too much traffic, absence of an abundance of photo opportunities, a lack of neighborhood social activities, and a very expensive place to spend the winter. We agreed that we would ask the owner if we could revise the lease agreement to change the duration to one month instead of three. Fortunately for us, she agreed, and we executed the new rental agreement while she visited. Consequently, we will be returning to Hot Springs Village before the end of the month of January.

Monday was a shopping day for Kay and Jolene, while I remained back in the rental to process photos. We both made calls and/or sent messages letting family know that our plans had changed.

Tuesday, January 7, (not sure of date) Jolene, with Gary’s assistance, prepared a chicken noodle soup and apple bread dinner for Ron,, Bev, Kay and me, after which we had another robust game of Hand and Foot, women vs. men. It was close, but the women edged out a win.

Monday through Tuesday, December 16-31, 2024—Another One Bites the Dust

Posted on December 31, 2024 by dunngone

The last couple of weeks have been mostly all about Christmas; actually though Christmas pretty much ended for us on December 22, when we celebrated with most of our immediate family and a holiday meal. More about that later.

The first few days of this “reporting” period involved luncheons and pickleball for Kay while I managed to take a few photos and play a bit of golf and pickleball.

On Thursday, December 19, birds were far and few between, and only a few of the regulars showed up at the feeders: a Carolina Chickadee, Carolina Wren, and Red-bellied Woodpecker.

And then on Friday, December 20, only a Carolina Chickadee and American Goldfinch fed during photo time on the deck.

Karyn and her family came down over on Saturday afternoon, and attended church with us on Sunday morning. Ron his family joined the activities after their church. We enjoyed a really nice holiday meal, after which gifts were exchanged. For Kay and me, it was pretty low key, and we really enjoyed the mostly stress-free environment. After the kiddos left, a time of picking up present wrapping waste and then relaxation was enjoyed.

“De-constructing” Christmas decorations followed on Monday and Tuesday. A holiday tradition, Candles and Communion, occurred at church on Tuesday, December 24, after which another holiday tradition, a spaghetti meal at Jim and Jackie’s was enjoyed by Jim, Jackie, Jackie’s sister and BIL, Pam, and Kay and me. It’s nice to have “new” holiday traditions, particularly after divorces from our original families, when all traditions collapse—just sayin’.

A cocktail party honoring the Starr’s was on Friday afternoon at the Janice and Harlan’s; Janice really knows how to host a party, and we enjoyed the hors ‘doeuvres, drinks, and most of all visiting with friends.

Following the party we began seriously packing for our winter stay in Florida.

Departing from home on Sunday, December 29, we stopped in Cordova, Tennessee, for a brief Christmas visit with Jenny and her kids.

The kids are growing so much and its interesting to watch how much they mature between visits. Jenny is doing well and is immensely enjoying her job at the YMCA headquarters. We are so pleased that all our our kids are good parents.

Decatur, Alabama, was the first overnight stop on the way to Florida, and an infection had Kay down and out, and very uncomfortable. Consequently, we spent 3 1/2 hours in the ER. It was packed, with most of those present coughing and hacking, likely with the flu. We donned facemarks for personal protection.

After the long wait, and then treatment in the ER, we drove back to the hotel for overnighting.

Our stop in Decatur, Alabama, was chosen because of its proximity to Wheeler National Wildlife Refuge (NWR). After a very short drive on Monday morning, the sound of Sandhill Cranes greeted us upon entrance to the NWR. The cranes were seemingly everywhere.

Even though the NWR Visitors’ Center didn’t open until 9 o’clock AM, people had already begun to arrive and were walking to their favorite observation sites. After eating the breakfast sandwiches in the parking lot, Kay and I walked to the two-story photo observatory, and began to photograph the birds immediately.

We then walked to several other observation sites, amazed at the number of cranes (between 17,000 and 19,000).

And then it was off to the Florida panhandle where we overnighted at Panama City Beach, the location chosen mainly to enjoy a dinner of fresh Gulf seafood. Dinner was at a highly recommended “hangout” that was only so so.

On Tuesday morning, we drove east and south to The Villages of Florida, the US’s largest 55+ community. After a brief orientation, we found the rental house, and “moved” in. We then joined the Starrs and Grahams for a really good dinner and then music at the Sumter Landing Town Square. People were everywhere! Being old fogies, Kay and I didn’t last too long and returned to the rental house to see 2024 out and 2025 in.

Sunday through Sunday, December 1-15, 2024—A First for a Modern Day Christmas

Posted on December 15, 2024 by dunngone

Even though the holiday season is in full swing, it has been relatively quiet here on the home front these first couple of weeks in December, at least for me. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons holiday depression has not reared its ugly head for the first time in perhaps 40 years! Kay, of course, has been busy with parties, etc, including hosting The Book Club for the month of December.

As we continue to spend winters away from home, medical and dental appointments abound this time of year. We both had dental appointments, Kay had visits with two doctors. I FINALLY got my hearing aids working (actually they were replaced) after several months, and I got a new prescription for contacts in both eyes±—close up in the left, distance in the right—and I can wear them at night for up to two weeks.

We both p played pickleball a couple of times, and ventured out on the golf course as well. Surprisingly, the courses remain in good condition.

As for projects, I put the finishing touches on the rolling workbench, trimming it out and adding a shelf.

Only a few birds were flying the last few days, and they were regulars at the feeders. I did manage to shoot a few photos on December 2, 4, 8, 9, and 15.

While Kay was out and about on Monday, December 2, a Brown-headed Nuthatch, a Carolina Chickadee, and an American Goldfinch visited our “sanctuary”.

On Wednesday, December 4, a Tufted Titmouse and Downy Woodpecker added to the mix.

And then on Monday, December 8, a Dark-eyed Junco and a Brown Creeper showed up. The Brown Creeper was a Life Bird for me!

Another new seasonal bird appeared on Tuesday, December 9: a Great Blue Egret.

And lastly, on Sunday, December 15, only a Carolina Chickadee came to hide in the now bare birch tree.

Saturday through Saturday, November 16-30, 2024—Christmas Season is Here

Posted on November 30, 2024 by dunngone

The Christmas season is upon us. Kay has begun decorating—at first a bit slow, but picking up speed as the month matured. Since we’re typically gone in the January through March timeframe, decorating early allows us to enjoy the season for a tad longer.

Besides golf and pickleball, Kay was busy with medical appointments and social events, while I took a break from pickleball for the last couple of weeks, but continued to play golf, 9 holes at a time. We both really enjoy our Sunday afternoon “Couples” Golf with the Seitzs, Baggetts, and Grahams.

While Kay was at a dental appointment on Tuesday, November 19, I waited patiently for birds to land to take their photo. Only a couple “posed” long enough for photos: a Tufted Titmouse and a Red-bellied Woodpecker.

The big project for November was design and construction of a rolling workbench. Fortunately, friend Dan had the same idea and came sup with a design for his workbench that was really good. I slightly modified it, and he and I cut out the pieces on Thursday, November 21.

I photographed birds on Friday, November 22, and again on Sunday, November 24, but nothing was processed to “write home about”. Also on Friday, November 22, The Christmas season began in earnest with a performance of A Christmas Carol, A Musical Performance by the HSV Players. It was awesome!

Cast of *A Christmas Carol, A Musical Performance*

Parts of Saturday and Sunday, November 23-34, were spent assembling the rolling workbench.

My carpentry and wood working skills are quite rusty,, but the project was fun and will work for the intended purposes.

Finally, on Monday, November 25, a few new birds showed up and were photographed.

Also on Monday, I returned to the Costco Hearing Aid Center to have hearing aids adjusted. This is the third or fourth time in the last few months I’ve been there to have adjustments. After much discussion and testing, the hearing specialist agreed that the hearing aids weren’t working; that’s what I told him several months ago before I finally stopped wearing them. A loaner pair was provided and they work great. Now, if mine will come back working…

The rolling workbench project that was begun on November 21was finished on Tuesday, November 26. It’s important to note that good friend, Dan Olson, devised the original design, and I only modified it slightly.

Also, on Tuesday, Kay cooked for Thanksgiving, making my mama’s cornbread dressing and a sweet potato casserole, and I photographed a Downy Woodpecker.

We enjoyed a Thanksgiving feast at Kay’s son and daughter-in-law’s house. All the food was really good.

As the days of late November came to a close, a significant cold front invaded the mid-south, dropping temperatures to a more normal level—lows in the 30s and highs in the 50s. This Carolina Chickadee, photographed on Saturday, November 30, has become a best friend of the seed feeder.

Friday through Friday, November 1-15, 2024—Life is Good, Except for Sports Injuries

Posted on November 15, 2024 by dunngone

The first week of November was one of intense rainfall, which was much needed. However, pickleball courts were closed and golf courses were cart path only; guess one can’t have everything!

I did manage to take photos five different days. A switch to bird photography was made on Saturday, November 2, as butterfly flights were far and few between. Only a couple of birds, the regulars at the feeders, were photographed, and it’s obvious I’m out of practice.

Daylight savings time ended on Sunday, November 3, and it now gets dark so quickly, and the older we get the longer it takes to adjust to the “new” time. More birds were photographed during the day, including a couple of “new” species: Brown-headed Nuthatch and Pine Warbler.

Kay’s social calendar is becoming quite full with various clubs and groups meeting weekly. This is in addition to her pickleball play several times a week.

I photographed birds again on Tuesday, November 5, but only the usual birds showed up near the feeders.

Middle school basketball has begun in earnest, and grandson Ridge plays a couple times a week. We watched him play on Thursday, November 7, but he only logged a few minutes because his team is so dar good that they were blowing the other team away. We watched him play again on Saturday, and it was the same with hime only playing a few minutes. He left at half time of the second game to play soccer, and his team won handily.

Unseasonably warm weather on Sunday, November 10, brought a few butterflies out, and two new species to our garden were observed. These were numbers 39 and 40 of the species visiting this year.

During pickleball play on Monday, November 11, I re-pulled the left hamstring, so no more pickleball for a while, and golf only 9 holes at at time.

Wednesday, November 13, was a busy day for us as we both had cardiology appointments, and Ridge had a basketball game. I did manage to take a few photos, finally switching over to the big lens, a Sony FE 200-600mm f/5.6-6.3 G OSS. Needless to say it requires a steady hand which I no longer possess.

Another new seasonal bird appeared on Friday, November 15—House Finch.

Tuesday through Monday, October 1-15—The Hummingbirds Left and then Kay Left

Posted on October 15, 2024 by dunngone

Kay and I continued playing lots of golf and pickleball despite the above average temperatures and humidity. Family birthdays continued this first half of the month of October; Karyn celebrated on October 6 and Jenny celebrated on October 13. One more birthday remains and it’s in a few days. Cool weather finally arrived on Monday evening, October 14, and was a welcome change from the high 80s and low 90s experienced earlier in the month. Big events this last couple of weeks included a “girls’ trip to the casino”, the monthly meeting of “The Book Club”, the Hot Springs Village Big Band Concert, and did I mention that Kay left me.

I did photography 8 days so far this month. On Tuesday, October 1, 2024, a “rare-to-this-area” Long-tailed Skipper showed up again, having first been observed a few days ago on September 29. I have seen only two other Long-tailed Skippers in Arkansas, in 2018 and 2020, both time in the west Little Rock area.

And, on this same day a tiny Anole was detected among the marigolds. It couldn’t have been more that about 5 centimeters (approximately 2 inches) long’

Only one new species of butterfly was detected so far this month, a Red Admiral on Wednesday, October 2, 2024.

A White-lined Sphinx Moth appeared out of nowhere and hung around for several photos. This was another first time visitor.

Otherwise, the garden visitors were many of the same species observed the previous couple of weeks.

On Friday, October 4, 2024, Kay, Pam, and Sue ventured to Pine Bluff to play the slots at the Saracen Casino Resort; none of the “girls” reported a winning night! Meanwhile, a Sachem Skipper butterfly was photographed.

On Monday, October 7, 2024, an American Lady butterfly was seen nectaring on a Butterfly Bush.

On Tuesday, October 8, a couple of real beauties were photographed: a Monarch and a Painted Lady.

The Hot Springs Village Big Band played a concert at the Balboa Pavilion on Friday, October 11, 2024. They are quite good, as many played professionally or as music faculty in the working lives. A couple of vocalists accompanied them on several songs.

Saturday, October 12, 2024, three butterfly species were photographed in the garden. Their beauty made up for the lack of numbers.

And then on Tuesday, October 15, 2024, Kay traveled to Short Pump, Virginia, for a sister visit. There is so much catching up and laughter when they get together, particularly reminiscing about foregone days. However, I miss her and am anxious for her to return home. The butterflies took pity on me that afternoon, and provided opportunities for several photographs.

Monday through Monday, September 16-30, 2024—Was It The Greatest Butterfly Day Ever

Posted on September 30, 2024 by dunngone

There’s not much to report this two-week period; we continued with our usual activities and meetings. A couple of highlights, though, were dinner out and cards with the Nobles and our annual COVID and flu injections.

Dinner on Friday, September 20, 2024, was at Mulligan’s, and Kay, Celeste Noble, and I had catfish while Tom had pizza. Kay and I used to eat catfish there every Friday evening when Troy and Patty owned and operated it, but had not been overly impressed when new owners/operators took over. This particular Friday evening was good. I can’t remember the card game we played, but it was similar to Hand-and-Foot and Tom won ALL the games!

A couple of butterflies and a hummingbird were photographed Saturday, September 21, 2024.

On Thursday, September 26, 2024, Kay and I had our annual flu and COVID injections. And, as usual I began having a reaction to the COVID injection at 2 AM the following morning. The reaction is tolerable, but a nuisance—fever, achy joints, and a headache—lasting about 48 hours. It is yucky at best.

Sunday, September 29, 2024, was a great day for butterfly photography. In fact, it’s the best day we’ve ever had in our yard. The small butterfly garden was full of various species of butterflies flitting here and there, nectaring on the wide variety of flowering plants. Of special note, a Long-tailed Skipper briefly appeared before disappearing for the day; however, I did get a decent photo of it. It’s only the second Long-tailed Skipper I’ve seen in Arkansas.

Also a first in the garden was a Gulf Fritillary.

And then a huge Great Spangled Fritillary, a bit worse for wear, was seen nectaring on a nearby flower.

The first Monarch butterfly to grace the garden then flew in for a brief visit.

And finally, a tiny Red-banded Hairstreak was spotted on a flower; this was another first-time visitor to the garden.

Not to be outdone, a Ruby-throated Hummingbird seemingly begged to be photographed.

Saturday through Sunday, September 1-15, 2024—Still Too Hot and Humid

Posted on September 15, 2024 by dunngone

The first half of September 2024 was filled with many of the same activities as the previous few weeks, except it seemed that the calendar was on steroids—something going on almost every day and every evening. We need a vacation from retirement. Despite the hot and humid weather, social activities dominated our weeks. And of course, there were weekend soccer games.

First, we began playing “Sunday Afternoon Couples Golf” with friends living in HSV that also spent winters in Arizona. These are really enjoyable outings followed by happy hour at one of the couple’s houses. Kay and I were responsible for scheduling September, and true to form we (I) made up some awesome (read that satirical) games. Photo by Bev Graham.

Second, Kay was busy with added social activities with respect to Naomi Circle, Pickleball with Lori (training sessions), PEO, and The Book Club.

And third, we attended a neighborhood potluck, and met a lot of “new” neighbors, most who were much younger that us, but very, very nice.

I squeezed in four days of photography in the backyard gardens, and new butterflies are still being observed.

Sunrise at our place in Hot Springs Village

However, the star of the show on Saturday, September 1, was our resident Green Heron.

On Thursday, September 5, a beautiful Blue Dasher dragonfly posed for photographs, while a “new-to-our-yard” Phaon Crescent butterfly appeared out of nowhere. The Phaon Crescent was the 32nd butterfly species to be observed in our garden/yard this year.

And, Ruby-throated Hummingbirds have begun showing up in fairly large numbers as they migrate south for the winter. Most are immature males who put on quite a “testerone” show of defending their feeder!

More hummingbirds appeared on Wednesday, September 11.

Ruby-throated Hummingbird sticking his tongue out

And on Saturday, September 14, we had a small menagerie of animals show up including butterflies, dragonflies, lizards, and squirrels.

And, oh, by the way, Kay and I celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary on September 2.

Saturday through Saturday, August 17-31, 2024—Same Old, Same Old

Posted on August 31, 2024 by dunngone

The title is absolutely wrong! According to the internet (the internet is never wrong), the phrase “same old same old” is an idiom that means something or someone’s behavior remains the same, especially when it’s boring or annoying. Our days are pretty much the same, but our lives are neither boring nor annoying.

Despite the heat and humidity, Kay and I kept busy with pickleball and golf, and of course she had tons of club meetings, etc. Kay is playing pickleball three or four times a week, and golf a couple times a week. And, she continues to improve at both sports.

With a fairly healthy body, I have really been into golf, playing four times a week, and most days playing pickleball before hand. I turned 75 this month, and am realizing the “old” body can not longer perform at that level—too bad.

On Saturdays and some Sundays, we traveled to Maumelle or Little Rock to watch the grandson play soccer. Life is such fun for us.

The butterfly garden is still attracting new species as well as several that keep hanging around. I spent about 30 minutes each day on August 17, 18, 23, 28, and 30 making photographs in and around the garden.

On Saturday, August 17, a Blue Dasher dragonfly posed, seemingly begging for a photograph.

And then on Sunday, August 18, our Maumelle family visited. This is one of our sweet, sweet granddaughters.

And out of nowhere, this miniature white horse showed up on one of the giant quartz rocks.

A Hoary Edge skipper also made an appearance.

A number of butterflies were photographed on Friday, August 23, including a Fiery Skipper, Common Buckeye, Pearl Crescent, and Orange Sulphur.

Not to be outdone, an Eastern Pondhawk and a Halloween Pennnant dragonfly presented themselves.

Wednesday, August 28, was a great day for butterflies. A Hackberry Emperor, Sachem Skipper, and Dun Skipper, Southern Brokendash, and Sleepy Orange were found nectaring in the garden.

And a male Ruby-throated Hummingbird showed its true colors nectaring near the deck.

On Friday, a Fragile Forktail damselfly (perhaps the one from a couple weeks ago?) posed for a photograph. (Note: these are only about an inch long)

Thursday through Friday, August 1-16, 2024—Bridge and Bugs

Posted on August 16, 2024 by dunngone

While golf and pickleball dominated our activities the first half of August, Kay has played bridge several times this month, and she regularly places among the top scorers. It’s an activity that we really miss but there just doesn’t seem to be time to play regularly.

The new butterfly garden is paying dividends way beyond expectations.

The absence of butterflies in late July was, I expect, the result of too much irrigation and moisture applied while were gone for the few days in late July. Letting it dry out a bit yielded a number of butterflies, many new to the garden. I photographed on August 2, 3, 8, 9, 10, 13, 14, and 15.

Saturday, August 2, yielded Clouded Skippers, a Pearl Crescent, a Fiery Skipper, and a Common Green Darner dragonfly.

A Pipevine Swallowtail, Common Buckeye, and Hoary Edge and Crossline skippers appeared on Sunday, August 3.

On August 8, a Northern Broken Dash, Fiery, and Crossline skippers were present, as well as a Blue Dasher, Slaty Skimmer, and Eastern Pondhawk dragonflies. Also, a Fragile Forktail damselfly revealed itself. And not to be outdone, a few Ruby-throated Hummingbirds exhibited their usual acrobatics.

A few new species and some “old” ones showed up on Saturday, August 9. These included Northern Brokendash, Northern Cloudywing, Dun, Silver-spotted, Sachem, and Southern Cloudywing skippers. And, of course, the Ruby-throated Hummingbird was not to be outdone.